To: Me
From: Me
Date: 15 April 2015
Subject: Self love
This memo serves as written notification that it’s absolutely totally utterly completely wholly OK to cut yourself some slack from time to time. Repeatedly beating yourself up about every little thing should stop immediately. It’s silly. It’s pointless. It achieves nothing. Please cease and desist before you self-destruct
Appropriate alternative action could be to indulge in:
1. a bit of bad mum dancing
2. attempted middle-aged twerking
3. singing along at peak volume with a song such as the sample below
4. random acts of huggingness
5. having a crack at taking less tragic selfies than the one above
Please note that all above substitute actions are also silly, pointless and achieve nothing but will not cause you to self-destruct.
Wendy, none of the above alternate actions are silly or pointless. In fact, they give immense happiness to the soul! I, too, indulge in such actions from time to time, esp. the singing and hugging part. It feels so good! :-)
ReplyDeleteI guess the fact that they're silly actually IS their point, isn't it Shilpa!
DeleteOh! And, I loved that selfie!
ReplyDeleteMy daughter was horrified that I would post it... she;s 14... I'm 56... Therein lies the difference in attitude to public image.
DeleteWow! Another fun song! I agree you should definitely give yourself some love. :) tm
ReplyDeleteSo glad you liked the song, Tracy. It's a big fave of mine right now.
DeleteVery good! I was currently beating myself up over my lack of progress with my chores today. Now I don't care and I'm going to dance around the kitchen. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteYou're most welcome... and thank you for stopping by to meet me.
DeleteI love your selfie by the way! Hey a bit of twerking is fine but watch that back!
ReplyDeleteMy feel- good song is still 'Happy' by Pharrell. I haven't got sick of it yet.
LOL... last year when we were in London there was a building site down the road with a sign out the front counting the number of days they'd gone without hearing that song.... hilarious... I still love it too.
Deletegreatest selfie ever!
ReplyDeleteMy goto song these days is by Roy Forbes and it is called Striking Matches. So good.
like most of us, i hate having my photo taken... and I'm a total shocker at taking selfies... my daughter despairs... but I like seeing pics of the bloggers I'm meeting so i thought I'd return the "favour".
DeleteOh... and I don't think I know your song, so I'm off to Girgle it right now...thanx for the intro
DeleteTechnically we can't twerk in this house because it is a Cyrus-free zone.
ReplyDeleteThat is a crazy selfie, but you actually look about 30 years old.
Well surely the non-twerking regulation can be broken when the kiddy police are at school.
Delete30! OMG GET NEW GLASSES